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Take Back Your Wedding

Marriage Friendly Wedding Planning: where people, values and relationships come first

Modern Bride Trendsetters 2007

What happens when you get wedding advice from a marriage and family counselor and "been there, seen that, heard that" daughter that directly addresses the complex maze of family emotion, loyalty, couple, parent Elizabeth Doherty Thomas and Bill Doherty, Ph.D.and in-law dynamics that bubble up in wedding planning?

Yes....

We aren't going to advice you with "should's". We aren't going to take an anti-male attitude. We aren't going to ask you to excersize or breathe your way through the stress.

We will give you guiding principles, based on Family Systems Thinking (a model used in marriage and family therapy), to help you get a better understanding of what is going on around your problem and the most appropriate ways to deal with situations, knowing you can change nobody but yourself. Elizabeth sees now how the stumbling blocks in her engagement and early marriage could have been greatly avoided had she know then what she knows now...

The “first dance” is a metaphor for having those we love surrounding us as a couple and becoming a part of our new marriage.

Our website (and book "Take Back Your Wedding") is focused exclusively on the relationships in wedding planning! Wedding coordinators are raving about the much needed advice and marriage educators are using the book in premarital classes. Enjoy our newly expanding website including:

Managing the People Stress of Wedding Planning  
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"Anyone involved in planning a wedding can benefit from this book.  It addresses true-to-life issues that everyone deals with in one way or another during the planning process.  It's about time someone talked about those issues, and gave practical solutions for dealing with them.  I know I will refer to this book often when working with my brides and grooms!"

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